Challenges of being a primary caregiver

I search for help during my mother's slow progression toward death. The Caregivers Journey, (Hospice Web site) is a beautifully written piece that helps visualize what one cannot know or see ahead on the path to the other side.

Some days are hard for me as the primary caregiver, and I feel guilty that I cannot be 100% everyday. Balancing the needs of my mother with my own need to be mentally, physically, and emotionally healthy is part of that journey. On those days when I have my own difficulties coping it is important to take time off, regroup, and find ways to escape the heaviness that accompanies the job. I feel awful leaving her to herself. But I know that others are there to help her too.

Microwave Sheep Heating Pad

I don't know how long the journey will be. It's hard to make plans ahead, especially travel plans. So, to make the best of each day, and to live my life with joy, I need to go to the gym or go outside and exercise, avoid the foods that may give me comfort for a few minutes but will make me gain unwanted pounds. There isn't much time to socialize, and rest. Managing my own needs with those of my mother and other family members is part of what makes this journey so challenging.

A Maine Warmers microwave heating pad helps me relax as it also helps elderly people who are inactive due to illness or stroke.

Reducing Stress when Caring for a Friend or Relative in Hospice Care

We often overlook the person who provides the care for someone who is terminally ill. Taking care of someone who is seriously ill can have a wide range of effects on the primary caregiver. The stress from dealing with a terminal illness can cause anxiety, anger, depression, and exhaustion. Finding out about these effects and ways to deal with them can be helpful and make a difference in quality of life for everyone.

An article at the National Cancer Institute Web site also applies to caring for people with other serious illnesses. The article covers a wide range of topics, including dealing with the physical, mental, spiritual, and social aspects of providing care to a person with a life-threatening illness.

Caregivers may find the stress makes it difficult to relax. Meditation, exercise, and other activities may help

one to relax. A heating pad will relax tense muscles and may help you go to sleep when feeling stressed or overwhelmed.

Maine Warmers microwave heating pads that are easy to use and are portable and their cozy Sheep, Dachshund Neck Warmer, and Comforting Bear Warmers make perfect gifts for someone who is caring for a relative or friend in in Hospice care.