Saturday, February 14, 2015

Finding the right person to talk to about death

Young people seem to have a hard time talking about death, even though they are curious about it.  Conversations about death make people uncomfortable.

I recently mentioned my mother’s wish to die to an acquaintance who asked about her. I could tell the conversation made this person uncomfortable and I tried to change the subject quickly. Injecting a little humor into a difficult conversation often makes a transition less awkward.

When someone is dying, the care-taker needs to maintain a healthy life balance. Having a confidant who can listen, understand, and empathize about the daily stresses of dealing with death is critical. Hospice has people who are trained, have experience, and are willing to be that person. Some people may have to deal with an impending death over a long period of time due to the nature of an illness and continued support is important.


If you need someone to talk to about death and family or friends are uncomfortable with the subject, then check out Hospice. They will help take care of you, too.
Two Dachshund microwave neck warmers curled up on a bed
Dachshund microwave heating pads offer comforting companionship

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