How to relieve some of the holiday stress

The holidays bring on all kinds of stress -- it's inescapable. From young children who are excited about presents and goodies, to unpleasant remembrances of the past, difficult sibling relationships, and aging. Here are a few remedies that might help.

Change the focus from oneself to that of helping others. It takes focus but is sure to make everyone feel better -- even though it may not eliminate all of the stress. Make it your goal to make others feel loved and welcome, let go of minor things, and focus on the important issues.

Keep it as simple as possible. Talk with your family or friends about the things they like to do at the holidays, then plan ahead, and be sure to plan to ask for help. In doing that, others feel better for being able to lend a hand and participate in making the holidays fun. Make sure to write you plan down (you can modify it as needed).

Give yourself time to relax. You'll be happier for it. Chill out, read a book, or take a nap.

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